Ruler...Lover...Magician...

I am at my best when I step up to take control when things are in disarray. When problems arise my natural response it to put in place procedures systems and policies to solve the current problem and any reoccurring problem in the future. I tend to notice where the power of authority lies. I want to be on guard when I notice myself misinterpreting others opinions as a threat to my power. I like and live stories where someone took over something that was in jeopardy and turned it around. As a leader I am good at putting in place structures, policies and procedures to make life easier and more efficient. I want to be seen as thoroughly in charge so that others want to naturally follow me. Others appreciate how I take charge and get things done.

                                                                                                       LOVER
I am at my best when I am sensuous, alive, vital and full of love for others and for life. When problems arise I look to see how relationships have broken down and heal it through communication and helping people to share what is bothering them. I tend to notice people, objects, activities, settings and experiences that evoke love, passion and sensuality. I want to guard against my tendency to play favorites and exclude people. I like and live all variations on the love story. As a leader I am passionate, charismatic and intense. I want to be seen as attractive, not only physically but in every way. Other appreciate my loving nature, my passion and my friendliness.

                                                                                                    MAGICIAN
When I am at my best I am charismatic, transformative and a healing presence. When problems arise I first change my attitude, expand my perspectives and adjust my behavior to create a ripple effect. I tend to notice serendipity, synchronicity and the interconnectedness of events. I want to be on guard when my charisma starts to manipulates others and overwhelm people with my high expectations. I live and like stories about the education of people who do miraculous things. as a leader, I am a visionary who energizes others by inspiring them to be true to their deeper values and work together to make a wonderfully transformative dream come true. I like to be seen as mysterious and often times as unnerving and disconnected. Others appreciate my vision and charisma.

Its amazing to me the patterns that I see in all of these descriptions. All of them put together are exactly how I see myself. The are portrayed in the order that I connect with the most so I first see most of myself in the ruler, then the lover and then the magician. It feels good to get a grasp an idea of who I am and why I do what I do on a day to day basis.
The assessment also gives you the results for the archetype that you are least like. I couldn't believe it when I read it because it something that I struggle with the most in my life and that is letting go...

                                                                                                  DESTROYER
This person is at their best when letting go and moving on. When problems arise they gain the wisdom to change what they can and accept what they cannot. They tend to notice and focus on the crisis at hand. They need to be on guard with their tendency to lash out. The live and like stories of action, with a lot of destruction and car scenes. As a leader, they are good at re engineering organizations. They want to be seen as whole. Others appreciate the way their suffering places them outside the real world.

What a trip...

Wow! What a trip...Every time I take a personality test for on of my HTM classes I am always very skeptical because it fathoms me how a series of simple questions spits out an accurate description on my personality, my views and the way I love my life. I took the PRINT assessment and the MBTI a few semesters ago and it taught me so much about who I am and why I do the things that I do. What I liked about the PMAI was, it told me how I am in a more professional setting. I couldn't believe how right my archetypes came out in the end. I only answered 72 questions with agree and disagree answers and it knew exactly who I was. My first instinct after taking one of these tests and looking at the results is over viewing what the other options could have been. So I looked over the other archetypes and they didn't fit me as well as the other ones. This was the same for the other personality tests. It really validates the test when I see what the other results could have been and they don't match my personality. It my next post I will share with you what the results for my PMAI test were. Scary how closely it reflects the person I am at this point in my life.

The pros and cons of trait based leadership theories...

Pros: There is evidence that traits do matter when evaluating a person in a leadership role. The 6 traits are drive, the desire to lead, honesty/integrity, self confidence, cognitive ability and knowledge of the business. People that have these traits have a "natural ability" to lead and they have been told that their entire lives. It gives them the motvation and the confidence to know that they can succeed in a leadership role.

Cons: Often times, a person that doesn't have these natural traits hears the comments around him that others are natural born leaders. When the same things aren't told to that individual it is hard for them to find the motivation and the confidence to put themselves in a leadership role. Also, if these certain individuals don't have any role models in their lives to show them what and effective leader looks like, it is difficult for them to succeed in the leading roles. They don't have the reinforcement and the support from outside individuals to recognize what it takes to be an effective leader.

Leadership Traits I admire and why...

The most important trait that I see when I look at a leader is their method of inspiration. I feel that a leader has the qualities that will motivate his followers to follow his inspiration no matter how hard the obstacle. I also think that they have a purpose that they are passionate about. They never lose their passion even in the face of fear or defeat and they always convey that to their team. Transformation is one of the most important traits I think a leader can have. If a leader can take his team from the bottom up he can put himself in any situation and be a successful leader. Being a great leader is about having a clear purpose that you are passionate about that you can inspire your followers to transform into the best possible human being they can be.

About Me

Sunni Wells

Hello Again!

A little bit about me...My name is Sunni and I am a senior at San Diego State University. I am a Hospitality and Tourism Management major with an emphasis in Hotel Management. I also have a minor in Chinese and a minor in Spanish. I grew up in San Diego and as college is coming to an end, I am having a constant internal debate about whether I am going to stay here with my family or experience something new and move away. I would like to do both but unfortunately I cant do both at the same time. I have been serving at Claim Jumper for about 7 years and last year I started working at the Westin San Diego as a Front Desk Agent. I cannot wait to graduate and get a real job that pays real money. If I could do anything in the world I would have a house flipping business. I like to see the transformation from new to old and I would also like to be my own boss. First I need to make some money in a real career so I can save up to follow my dream. Well that all for my biography for now. Hopefully while reading my blog you get to know a little bit more of what I am about. 

What am I doing???

Hello! Im not sure if this is going to work. I feel like I have created 5 different blog sites and none of them have worked. Good news...this is the first time I have been able to get to this page. Well...lets see how this goes. If this works I promise it will be more exciting next time!